The majority times when you make an appointment with a medium you do not really know what to expect. Your friends give you the go ahead; they have been to see a medium and enjoy the experience or found the answers they were seeking.
And there you are trying to decide if this is something you want to do. Most people generally have heard about many individuals they could make an appointment with but have never been. Still not sure but, there has to be someone that can tell you what you need to know or understand and what the answer is to what is gong on in your life. Then too, is the chance that you can hear from your loved one who has passed away or who is missing and you just need to know how they are doing or where they are at. Many individuals see a medium when their loved one has passed away. This is the perfect opportunity to find some one who knows you are not crazy in wanting to hear from them one more time, to know they forgive you or where they hid their good silver.. This is when it is time to see a medium.
You are not for sure of what to expect but you need assistance and you need someone who does not know you, that can help you along the way. So you go ahead and make the appointment. You then wait the time until you are to connect with the medium on the phone or go see them in person. Your nervous about the whole thing and did you really do the right thing?
I know it can be very easy to make an appointment with a medium and or a psychic. But then again it can be very difficult. You do not know what to expect, is the medium good at their work, will the medium be flaky or worse yet scary in any way? Will the medium tell you something you do not want to hear? Will the medium be able to bring your mother in, so you can talk to her and do you really want to hear what is being given to you?
There are always those who have been told by a medium or psychic that they themselves will transition at a certain age. What about hearing all of the things you have done in your life, good bad or indifferent. Do you really want to know?
Most individuals who make an appointment to see a medium have had a friend who has made that connection. They enjoyed their time and found it to be one of closure, enlightment, informative and peaceful. Still it can make you nervous just knowing that someone else can actually tell you things about yourself and give you confirmation on your loved one who has recently transitioned.
What is the reason to see a medium? So many believe that a medium is just a psychic, that they will tell you your future of fortune, look at the time and date of when you were born and then it will be just like anything else that gives you the same old thing. Not so, a medium is one who raises their vibration to be at peace with all things around them. A Medium is a vehicle to bring in those loved ones in spirit, your guides, angels and teachers who have much to say to you as they now have your full attention. A medium is not doing this to make things better for themselves but to assist those seeking closure in their lives. The individual is seeking to hear from their loved one who has transitioned; most times they just need that extra added time to look at things. A clear medium can do just that. They are the vehicle in which the loved one in spirit can give messages to, in their new found language to bring to their loved one here in the physical. It works in a variety of ways that the medium must be aware of all their own surroundings. The medium will work with different senses to bring in those messages. A medium will either see, hear, sense, feel, smell , taste different energies from the loved one in spirit, to then start to piece the images, sounds, feelings together to bring the messages across to the individual here in the physical. This then is relaying message from the loved one is spirit to show the continuity of life.
In all of this, the medium then begins their conversation with the individual in spirit to be able to accurately… to the best of their knowledge, then deliver those messages to the individual who is seeking that connection. A medium is not to bring fear into your session at any time, this is irresponsible to do so. Once again it is about the continuity of life that a medium is to share with others.
Before your appointment go ahead and write down some questions you may have. These can be any questions that are weighing heavy upon you or things that you need direction and guidance in. The questions are for you tot remember and not to be given to the medium until the time later in your reading that they may ask you if you have any questions. Really think about your questions. A simple question where you will receive a yes or no answer is not a question that you will be writing down. This you know yourself the answer already.
I also suggest writing down the question as it never fails that when the time comes for the medium to ask if you have any question your mind will go blank. This many mediums call psychic amnesia or mental block. You have been given so much and you are still processing all that you are hearing that your mind just goes blank. This is why you write them out. Most times you will find that you will not need to look at your questions at all , as they have already been answered.
Never give your list of questions to the medium when you first sit down for your appointment. This is giving the medium everything they need on a silver platter and you will never get verification in doing so. It is too easy for the medium to just look at your question and answer it themselves. Which is also called leading. If you are spending time with an medium , you will be looking for them to give you so much information to start with, your questions should come at the end of your session.
Make sure you know if your medium tapes or records the reading for you. If not ask if it is okay that you record the reading yourself. You can do this by purchasing a digital recorder or bring a hand held tape recorder with you. You must always ask permission, as some mediums and psychics do not like to record at all.
If you have pictures and items that belonged to your love one it is okay to have them with you. Some mediums use this as a door opener. But remember this is called psychometry, they are reading the energy off of the item. If this item belonged to your loved one and you need to know about them ( if they are missing or if they have a cherished memory you want to know about) then it is okay to give it to the medium. Please remember if you have been holding the item a lot, they are then and will only be reading your energy. So they will be getting your information first, if the medium is exceptionally good they will be able to get through your energy to get to your loved ones energy and go from there. But also take into consideration that if you have been holding it, they will also pick up on your memories and intention of that loved one.
On the day of your appointment, please make sure you are on time. Many times if you have to wait for your appointment time it is because the individuals before you was running late. This will then back up the schedule for that day. So if you do not want to be waiting for your appointment to begin, be considerate of the next person. Most mediums will not take a client who is late for a specified amount of time to their appointment.
Have in hand your questions , remember you do not have to show them to the medium, just keep them in your pocket. You may let them know you have a picture or item and keep it on you until they ask for it. Recorder with you ( if you need it ) and most importantly a notebook, so that you can write down anything that you need. Then all you have to do is to relax.
As you reading begins, realize that the medium should not be one who instills fear. As your loved ones, guides and angels have nothing fearful to give you. They love you and have only your best interest at heart when they are with you. Your medium should start out with so much information just for you. As the reading progresses there may be times when a medium will make a reference to something that is given to them. Not all mediums work the same and many will be receiving things that make no sense to them, but will make sense to you. Sometimes many individuals have not understood at that moment, but a month later the answer finally comes about like an epiphany
With any messages you receive you should understand that sometime it is not always going to be what you want to hear verses what you need to hear. Keep an open mind and heart to the messages that come to you.
If at anytime your medium or psychic tells you fearful things then you do not ever need to go back to that medium and you know that at anytime you may get up and leave. This not to say that a medium just might have a message that you do not want to hear. This can be very fearful or upsetting to you, please know that our loved one can see and know so much more now, than they did when they lived here with you.
When I say fearful I mean they tell you that someone in your life will pass away soon. That the loved one in spirit is mad at you, or they are angry at you. Your loved one can never be mad as that is a human emotion that is no longer with them. They can transform the energy to one that you will know it is them, but they are in a place of peace and love. If you have a medium or psychic who tells you to come back as your energy is bad or you have dark karma around you that they will get rid of it for you. As you will need another appointment that is much higher in price, then find the nearest door and never go back again. No one can clear your dark /bad karma or energy from or for you, this must be done by you and you only. At that point find a workshop that teaches you about how to work with your energy or one that teaches you how to connect with your own guides and angels.
There are many out there who say they are mediums, there are many mediums out there that give the legitimate mediums a bad name. Do your homework on the mediums you hear about or read about. Ask your friends, visit the mediums websites, read about them, and get your own impression on them before you make the appointment.
Most of all enjoy your time with your medium; they can be your very best friend to bring that peace in your heart that you are searching for. To open the doors to your own spiritual journey here on Mother Earth. Peace to you !
Love, Laughter & Light, Adele
